Fish Eyes and French Toilets

A Little Summer Break: This journal will return in July. I leave you with one more story from my daughter, who’ll return to France very soon…so soon she can already taste it! More in today’s story. We thank you for reading and sharing these missives.

TODAY’S WORD: la marée : tide

PRONUNCIATION: mah-ray

EXAMPLE SENTENCE:
Comme la marée, les comparaisons entre la France et l’Amérique vont et viennent.
Like the tide, the comparisons between France and America come and go.

A plated dish featuring a whole fish garnished with lemon slices and herbs, accompanied by asparagus, stuffed bell pepper, and a side of olive oil.

FISH EYES AND FRENCH TOILETS by Jacqueline Espinasse 

The heat is rising in the city and, when that happens, Vin and I take the Metro-North Railroad from Grand Central Terminal to Connecticut. Come to think of it, in France we would probably take the TGV or the TER for local stops.

Connecticut is part of the New England coast, and I cannot help comparing it to my first love, la Côte d’Azur.

As we arrive in the town of Norwalk, we instantly make our way to the beach. On the French Riviera, the air is scented with lavender. But here, as we walk, another fragrance takes its place: the sweet perfume of white flowers, smelling just like honey. Back home, we call them le chèvrefeuille.

“The tide is low today,” Vin says.

Je rêve. The Mediterranean doesn’t really have big tides, maybe eight to sixteen inches at most. And then you can see jellyfish washed up on the sand at Sainte-Maxime and hear locals shout, “Attention aux méduses!”

On the coast of New England, however, the tides range from two to four meters. Huge rocks emerge from beneath the water farther out along the coast, and the underwater life reveals itself.

Vin doesn’t like low tide. “It smells a little more,” he says, “and I just don’t think it’s that appealing.” 

La marée basse… I remember vacations in Bretagne as a child; it did smell a little more like seaweed there.

Hot nights in Norwalk are spent on the patio, warmly hosted by Vin’s parents. We have good wine, a big barbecue, and lively conversations.

“Do you eat fish eyes here?” I say, sur un ton d’humour.

“Oh no, not at all, Jackie,” says Luke, Vinny’s brother-in-law.

My mom used to tell stories about moving from America to France—about drying racks instead of electric dryers and strange French toilets. Almost three decades later, here I am doing the same thing, telling stories and sharing quirky cultural differences. Like the tide, these comparisons ebb and flow.


FRENCH VOCABULARY  

la marée = tide

la Côte d’Azur = the French Riviera

le chèvrefeuille = honeysuckle

les méduses = jellyfish

je rêve = I’m dreaming

la marée basse = low tide

sur un ton d’humour = jokingly; in a humorous tone

les yeux de poisson = fish eyes

(missed one vocabulary term for the soundfile: Bretagne = Brittany. See any other “oublies”). Thanks for letting us know.

Le chèvrefeuille, or honeysuckle

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That’s all for now. Take care and see you in July! I leave you with a happy souvenir from 2012 with Betsy Foree, a longtime reader we bumped into in La Cadière d’Azur while Mom and I were having lunch at Le Central. Betsy lives in New Mexico and is an avid cyclist who loves biking in France.

Betsy and Kristi in 2012

P.S. Check this out! Betsy writes: “Ralph & I build the first petanque court in the foothills of the Sangre de Christo. It’s obviously not La Ciotat regulation size and we make regional rules…which change on a whim. You can see the metal ring we must stand inside and Aubut balls I found at a La Cadiere vide Grenier. Come play!!. We only have 2 sets of 3 balls BUT there’s hope for 2 more sets: Santa Fe has a Boule Club!! Oh, you can see in pic the cochonet..orange ball. So much fun.”

(I can see Ralph and Betsy meeting up with some other fun readers of ours, Gary and Lou, from Boulder. They happen to be in the area, now, and they too are avid cyclists and pétanque players!)

With Lou and Gary in 2019, at Mugel beach restaurant

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8 thoughts on “Fish Eyes and French Toilets

  1. Ebb and flow of lives…love that and LOVE that fish, which looks perfectly cooked and made me drool….what a grand life you live in two countries full of adventures. Love your writing and tell you mama to have a wonderful ‘time off’. At least her blog has not disappeared, as has MINE!!!

  2. I always enjoy the posts. But I didn’t understand why French toilets were mentioned, but no details provided. Why were they strange?

  3. Our dears Kristi and Jackie,
    Another wonderful post( as always!)
    Wishing you bon vacance et bon voyage!
    Blessing always to all of you
    Arms around you tight
    Love
    Natalia

  4. Love this post!
    The best of both worlds… the sea with relaxation and family; the city with everything to enjoy at your fingertips! All around the globe, this is to be savored, but not so sure about fish eyes!? 😉

  5. Late to the party but I just had to say I’m happy to share the scent of chevrefeuille with you, J. The vines will strangle everything else in my yard if I don’t keep up with the pruning but that fragrance is summer to me. Well, also muguet and the lilacs. There’s a few weeks around here where breathing is a wonderful experience. Fond memories of dorm life in Montreal. The dining room served fish French style. Head, tail, skin…. once I got past the idea that it was looking at me with reproach it was delicious. I try not to think too hard about where my protein comes from. Re la maree basse, if it smells like seaweed, all’s well. More fond memories of the Cross Island Parkway where it goes along the west end of the Sound…. back in the day the smell was politely called bilge water. One more… the word cousinnade. I won’t go back and check the spelling. Had a big gathering of cousins this past weekend up near Saratoga. I shared the word with them; we will adopt it. Til July…..

  6. bonjour Kristi et Jackie: This particular story was sent on my birthday, #82. I always look forward to reading both you & Jackie’s e-mails especially about France & countries/states that I’ve never visited. I love your comparisons about smells in oceans & seas. There are certain smells that evoke memory of the ocean in Coney Island, the seaweed. Hope you enjoy your time together this week. Will be looking for the next one. Amicalmente, Ann

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