The sign in the lower left reads: A VENDRE (For Sale). After I posted a question on Friday ("Should I post once- or twice-weekly"), one reader commented that this blog might as well close up shop! The suggestion got me all riled up–which isn't such a bad place to be, when you're sitting on the fence over where you need to be….
TODAY'S WORD
"faire bisquer"
: to get somebody riled, to wind them up
AUDIO FILE
Ever heard the children's taunt: "Bis-que, bis-que, ra-ge!"? Listen to Jean-Marc read the French, below (please check back to the blog for the sound file).
Bis-que, bis-que, ra-ge! Ces mots sont utilisé pour se vanter de quelque chose devant un interlocuteur et le faire bisquer.
Bis-que, bis-que, ra-ge! These words are used to boast about something in front of someone, to get a rise out of them.
A DAY IN A FRENCH LIFE… by Kristin Espinasse
No story today. Just a nostalgic look back in time. And a very BIG thank you for your warm and thoughtful and generous words following Friday's post. I was especially touched by your gratitude and humility. If only you knew how often your words have moved me!
The photos that accompany today's post were inspired by another reader's comment. Michele wrote in to say that she's followed this blog since 8/9/2004! Thank you, Michèle. Here are some snapshots from that time period….
In 2004, our kids were 6 and 8 and this blog was about to turn 2!
I began taking photos to illustrate these posts….
Do you remember some of them?
2004. We were living in the Medieval village of Les Arcs-sur-Argens. I wrote more about this period in my book Blossoming in Provence.
In 2004 Smokey was but a twinkle in his mother's eye (she herself but une étincelle in our family's eyes)
I had recently left my job at a local vineyard (not this one, above), to follow my dream of writing (recounted in great detail, here). I never imagined our family would begin our own vineyard–making my newfound writing time a tug-o'-war between the keyboard and all the vineyard support (my husband needed me more than ever).
I managed to publish French Word-A-Day and write right through it all–experiencing some glorious moments! A book with Simon and Schuster…
And a chance to speak at Shakespeare and Company in Paris!
I kept writing — through births and deaths and health upsets
And when it all gets to be too much, I lie down and let your encouraging words nudge me, bringing me back to life and gently setting me back on track.
Merci beaucoup pour tout!
As to whether or not I should close up shop, or end this blog–you can't get rid of me that easily! Meantime, thanks so much for reading and for the encouraging words you've sent me!
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I would love to know when you began reading French Word-A-Day? I started the website in October 2002, and moved began posting in blog format in 2004. Thanks for commenting here, and see you in few days…
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I am not sure of the exact date when I began following you Kristi, but it was because of your Mom’s introduction. I was recouperating from a serious accident w/TBI and I had met her on Facebook as a fellow artist. It was wonderful way to help broaden my world and bring joy to my heart. Although I have never met your mom personally, I am so grateful, because I feel as if I have an “adopted” family. Unfortunately TBI’s often leave people estranged from their own families for whatever reason or lack of reason… Following your family has been wonderful. So STOPPING now is not an option. My connection to your French Life has enriched my days, made me laugh, brought tears to my eyes, love to my heart, but most of all, joy to my life…
Much Love,
bj
Kristi, I’ve been with you since the beginning! You can’t quit now! My students love your column. They must read it every week as part of their assignments! Merci pour tout! Amitiés, Paula
Kristin, I think I have been a member, maybe two years? I have enjoyed reading this so very much. I can tell, you are stressed and over worked some times. I think that runs in “cycles”. hurting you arm, set you back, I am certain. I would guess 99% of your readers say, “don’t stop” but,,,, you could cut back, especially in the summer or whenever you like. your husband and children should come first, then type when you are “inspired” to the most beautiful lady in the world, who has much to say , your #1 fan. joy wood
I’ve been reading your blog for maybe 2 years. I love the format and your writing envelopes me in the French Life Well Lived. Thank you for all you do.
NO! Do not shut up the blog. You have too many loyal fans. We began
reading when Braise was lost in Marseilles. I don’t remember exactly when that was, but some time ago. Keep going as long as you can enjoy it.
Dear Kristin,
I have been reading FWAD since Max and Jackie were quite young. Even though I enjoy your blog and everything about it more than I can express, I want you to do what you feel is in your best interest at this time in your life. Even though you have hundreds of readers (I being one of then) who hope you will continue FWAD, the decision must be made by you with the help of your family. Either way: I send love and my very best wishes, Cynthia
You can’t leave- I just got here!
Subscribed to your blog this past summer at the suggestion of my boss, whose sister knows you or went to school with you or met you before you were famous. You will hear a collective sigh of relief when inboxes around the world are opened and Word-A-Day addicts find their next fix.
I think that I began reading your blog about 4 years ago. I guess I live a bit vicariously through you … my name is Kristin, from Minnesota, a French teacher, fascinated with France, tried raising my oldest daughter bilingually, settled on having exposure to other cultures and languages for our three daughters. I enjoy your stories about your life in France and your questions about life. I think that you should continue as it suits you. As you can see from the many comments, many of us enjoy your posts! I think it’s important to make sure that you continue to do things that fulfill you. bon courage!
Kristen,
Don’t listen to the negative comments.
Keep on writing, as many days as you want.
I enjoy your writing, and it keeps my dreams of visiting the south of France again.
I began reading in the fall of 2008 following a business trip to Montreal. An American ex-pat coworker there suggested it as a way to help learn the language, but I fell in love with you (blog-tonically, of course) and the vicarious French life. When I married in the summer of 2010, I introduced my wife to the blog which she loves dearly. Her first birthday request last year was for the new book which we have both loved as well.
Your thoughts and stories reach around the world and deep into the hearts of so many people. You must always follow your heart, and do what you feel is best, but I hope your choice will be to continue sharing your words with us!
Andy
Hello Kristen,
Based on your comment at the end of today’s post, I assume that you are going to continue writing French Word-a-Day. I am very glad for that, as FWAD offers so much to so many, including me (and, I hope, you!). I have been a subscriber since September of 2011 (when I found FWAD). As to the number of times you post each week, that is of course up to you. I will read and savor whatever you write, however often you post. Thank you, Leslie
Please don’t close up shop. I would miss you. If you want to spend time doing other things, or other writing, please consider posting less often. I discovered your blog in 2010.
Kristin,
The world is filled with hateful people. If you quit, you will serve them and not the many more who silently look forward to your blog.
Please walk in the faith that more good is done than you will ever know! Thank you so very much for the joy you bring into my world.
D.
Love the photo retrospective! I remember the photo of Braise (Brezh?) and Smokey–adorable. I think I started reading in 2004 or 2005. I remember where I first sat reading it. My workspace has since moved three times–in the same house–but it was definitely before the 2006 configuration! to disappear. You should publish in whatever way *you* enjoy. If you enjoy making it, we’ll enjoy reading it! I appreciate the glimpse you give into another way of life, especially when language is the key to a different way of seeing things.
I’ve been a follower of French Word-a-Day since very early on.. Seems like about 2002, but it’s so long now I can’t find the exact time. I remember being very impressed that you wrote five pieces a week. Nevertheless, I’ve been there as your children have grown, as you’ve navigated changes, and as you’ve generously shared your life through the years. Lots has changed for me as well..job changes, travel,new marriage, grandchildren. I’ve enjoyed a little break with you each week, and I’d feel a loss if you were to “close up shop.” But, as others have said, when the time comes, it’ll be your choice, and not someone else’s! Meanwhile, I’m still here ..and with no plans to leave. Thanks for all the years you’ve shared, and all the best to you and your family in the years to come.
Kristin,
Somehow I missed the email (or receiving the email if there were any new changes made there) of this January 19th blog. Today I went searching … yikes! … to see a post about closing up shop! Whew! Glad that is NOT happening.
I, too, originally began reading years ago after I read Words in a French Life (though I don’t believe I ever commented then). Then, for various reasons, or no reason at all perhaps, I didn’t read much on the Internet and lost track of this blog for years. Fortunately, for me, I discovered FWAD again sometime during my years of caregiving. Your words and photos a much welcomed respite (sigh).
(415 comments before this one? Wow! I will not be reading them all today 🙂 I can’t imagine how you manage! That must be a full-time job in itself.)
I just subscribed and love your blog. Please keep it coming! Thank you
Kristin, please continue your blog! I have been a reader since 2006 when a French teacher directed me there. You were the one brave enough to go and live in France, while I have only visited twice. I look forward to your gorgeous photos, always full of color, and capturing unusual signs, window occupants, etc. These are exactly the kinds of scenes that kept my head twisting in Provence!
Wow, for years now! Please don’t leave us.
Wow, did every single one of your subscribers weigh in on this question? If this outpouring of love and support doesn’t convince you to go on, nothing will. If it’s not fun anymore, though, you should stop. BUT, you should not stop writing. You’re extremely gifted, and your mind works in interesting ways.
I have been reading since you lived in Les Arcs.
Dear Kristi
Having read your blog over the years I feel I know you and I am sure many of your readers feel the same. I have lived a few more summers than you have and my own experience of life would prompt me to say this to you.
If you are going to let one criticism from one rude and unkind person make you give up something you have worked so hard on, then you are not the person I think you are!
Follow your heart and your gut feeling in life. Do what YOU want to do. Sometimes it is time to end a chapter and find a new direction. But it should be YOUR choice not somebody else’s. Nothing stays the same, things have to change, that you can be sure of! C’est la vie!!
Sometimes we stray from our path and get sidetracked, disillusioned. But hey we have to take a bad day, month, year in our stride. I have spent many years on a roundabout not knowing which road to take. Now I am older I try to make sure I focus my time on the things that really, really matter to me. I think we need to have a regular spring clean, not only of our possessions but our mind. It too can get cluttered and it can be hard to see the wood for the trees.
Whatever you choose to do in life Kristin, know you will do it to the best of your ability and do it well and with passion.
Don’t be too hard on yourself. You are doing just fine! X
Very best wishes
Lynda
I am late to weigh in here, but I was truly ‘riled up’ that someone would suggest you close up shop. NON! Yours is the only blog I have ever followed, and for the last few years, I have saved your posts in a folder on my computer. I have bought your books, as well as other books you have recommended and the French Christmas CD -multiple copies for gifts, as well as winning one. I cannot imagine….well….please do not ‘fermez’
Kristi,
I think I started reading your blog around 2004. I must say it always puts a smile on my face when I see the messaeg in my inbox. I have enjoyed reading your books as well as blogs and also going to tasting and buying your whine when Jean-Marc was in town. Transitions are hard. If it is the time for you to end the blog, then merci for the past 11 years. If you will continue the blog, then merci as well!
Kevin
Salut, Kristin:
Non,non, mille fois non. Veuillez ne terminez pas votre blog.
I began reading your blog about 10 years ago and it is the highlight of my day. (“Le clou de ma journee??) Your writing style is superb, your stories lastingly enjoyable and your photos are magnificent.
But I know how difficult continuing the blog must be if your heart is not in it. If you are considering closing the Blog, please just put the blog “On Hold” for a couple of weeks and then take another review of how you feel about continuing.
Thank you, thank you for all of the issues you have published thus far.
Russ Norris, homme d’un certain age
I found this blog by accident around 2004 and was enthralled with the concept. As a school administrator and former French teacher, I encouraged my language teachers to use the blog as a resource in their classes.
For years and years I have been a devoted francophile. Kristie, you provide a service that includes entertainment and education. Your photos are inspirational. I look forward to reading your blog as often as you can write it. Do not stop!
Gabrielle
I started following in Jan or Feb 2004 and have forwarded your posts to many friends who not only follow you but have bought your books. I wanted to brush up on my French skills and the blog seemed a good way to do it. Between then and now I have enjoyed both the French lessons but mostly the stories of your life and family.
I am not exactly good at reading the posts right away, they sit in my inbox (sometimes for months!) until I have a binge-catch up. Therefore post as little or as much as you like, I think most of us will stay subscribed as long as you keep posting anything at all!
Best wishes from Toronto.
I don’t remember when I subscribed to French word a Day (it was after a blurb about you appeared in an ASU publication). In any case, I do enjoy your writing and photos immensely. Whether you post once or twice a week does not matter to me; I will read what you send.
,
I, for one, look forward to your blog each week.
My French is just enough to get by and I’m always looking to
improve my language skills. Your photos are nostalgic to me as well as your stories.
I spent four years in Europe when I was a young girl like you which I write about in my travelogue using my psuedonym, Madame Aline
“I Became a Vagabond Traveler”. Reviews are on http://www.Amazon.com It is also on http://www.Amazon.fr with fewer reviews. Also on Amazon kindle.
My daughter lives in Paris (near Shakespeare and Co). and I spend several weeks with her and my new granddaughter each year. We always make one major trip around Europe each year often to those places I lived or worked in my youth. Reminds me of when your mother visits you.
In many ways, I wish I had remained in Europe way back then.
We did visit Provence a few years ago.
So keep up your good work as for me it is deeply appreciated.
Eileen Carpenter
AKA Madame Aline
My smiles depend on your stories and blog. Don’t stop…and when is that next book coming out? All my friends are asking!
hi kristie
Don’t ever stop blogging!! i have followed you since blaise ran away with smoky’s daddy, have loved your goldens since my own passed ‘over the rainbow bridge, suffered through your skin problems (i have had two surgeries to remove said problem from my scalp) … all while enjoying refreshing my french language skills, enjoying your wonderful photography and watching your children grow up. you are a wonderful writer and truly convey to your readers what it has been like to be an american girl living her life in france. Never stop writing.
My welcome email from listmanager arrived on Sep 29, 2004. How fast the time goes by. I’ve enjoyed following your adventures, and I’ve often felt your pain. Your wonderful photographs transport me away from the ugliness I have to deal with in my law enforcement job. Thank you for that. I hope you continue treating us with glimpses of your charming life’s journey in France!
I totally missed this day. I hope you get to see it. I really hope you do not stop your blog. I know it brings joy to many of us. If it hurts you in anyway causing you to have to stop, the of course think of yourself. If you worry about the people who have bad comments, don’t. There are those people in everything in life. I started the blog in 09 after reading one of your books. I do hope you continue if you still enjoy doing it.
Take care,
I have been reading and loving this blog since 2013 when it was recommended to me by my daughter. I LOVE IT! It gives a fantastic insight to everyday French life and language and it is interesting. You have my vote to keep it going.
I have been reading and enjoying for years and included a link to you on a blog I started for my senior French students!
I hope you keep going – I think you make us all feel as though we have a personal connection in France and it is such a privilege. Thank you!
I am trying to comment here on the “Coucou” post, which was sent in a roundabout way when the Espinasse computers weren’t working. Thanks for your valiant efforts to provide FWAD in spite of obstacles. We were invited to comment “at the end of the blog post,” but I didn’t see a way to do that. I hope you will see this.
Sometimes, the audio file is “off” – it echoes, or there seem to be two overlapping voices not quite in sync. Today’s audio file was perfect, very clear.
I am happy to read FWAD even without all the bells and whistles on occasion, although I appreciate the extra effort that goes into including them, and I never tire of the photos, including ones of your family.
Dear Kristin,
I started reading your blog…today! I love what I’ve read so far and look forward to reading a lot more from you 🙂
Claire
Bonjour madame,
I subscribed to french-word-a-day a few months after I started taking private French classes in January 2012. (My New Year’s resolution).
I have enjoyed your life stories, adventures and the vocabulary.
You have a loyal follower for life.
Maybe on my next visit to France we will visit your winery.
Merci beaucoup,
Lisa
I have been happily following your website/blog since early on. I had moved back to the US from France (kicking and screaming) and sought out all things French…still do! I was thrilled to find out about French-Word-A-Day and continue to thoroughly enjoy reading about your adventures and experiences. Keep them coming…
I very much enjoy your posts; think it was about 2 years ago I discovered your column. I vote for 2x week. However, the decision on how often should be up to YOU. If you are burned out, or twice a week no longer works for you, once a week is certainly better than none! The French language lessons, stories about your life/family, and photos – I look forward to them all.
As you can see by the date of this post that I frequently am playing catch up on your blog, but I have been with you from the beginning! Please do not stop, slow down, yes, understandable, but I will be with you as long as you are here! Thanks for a great blog!
Dear Kristin,
I love your blog. I have been following it for at least a year. When i see it in my mailbox it always gives me a lift. Love your humor, your family (including your dog) and you are a fabulous photographer. I would be sorely disappointed if you disappeared!
I have just discovered your fabulous blog, and I’m starting to catch up with each post slowly. Mon Français is not as good as I’d like, but reading your posts helps a little more sink in each time. Planning a move to France in the next couple of years with my half-French wife and your blog is also superb reference material and so very enlightening. Please don’t stop it!
Merci,
Lee S
No doubt you have had your ups and downs in sharing your knowledge of French language to the world, and no one can blame you for being overwhelmed every once in a while. No need to worry about your blog closing if you take a break or two. What’s important is you keep up with your passion of sharing and reaching out to people, and helping them have confidence in speaking French.