La soeur – sister in French

Kristi and Heidi (c) Kristin Espinasse
My beautiful sister, and Mom's first-born, Heidi (right). Our mom, Jules, painted the quail and my mother-in-law, Michèle-France, gave me the owl (next to the rosary and the purse). Voilà… just another family photo. Do you sniff homesickness? 

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la soeur (sir)

    : sister; nun

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l'âme soeur = soul mate
la belle-soeur = sister-in-law
la demi-soeur = half sister
la petite soeur or soeur cadette or, la soeurette = little sister

Ma soeur aînée s'appelle Heidi. The name of my older sister is Heidi.

Also:
la soeur jumelle
= twin sister
la soeur de race = soul sister
la soeur de lait = foster sister

 

A DAY IN A FRENCH LIFE… by Kristin Espinasse

00-1-602…. Please pick up the phone… I whisper, dialing my sister's cell. This isn't an emergency—I just want to hear her voice.

"Hey, Kristi!" my sister answers, and the melody in her greeting tells me she's got time to chat. In fact, she'll even call me right back—on her nickel.

I relax back into the pillows that are propped up against the wall where I might have put a headboard had I gotten my renovation act together—or followed through with my vow to tackle tiny projects (like the inspired centerpiece or the corner office).

This time my phone rings and my sister's voice drowns out my restless thoughts. I begin to wonder where Heidi is. She certainly wouldn't be languishing in bed staring at the cracks in the wall…. She'd be at the hardware store with her bullet list! 

I laugh when Heidi tells me she is sitting in her car, waiting for the pet store to open. She needs dog food for Winston and Truly, her sheepdogs, or chiens de berger anglais. (Took me forever to figure out what these dogs are called in French. But then I'm lazy.)

The idea that my sister is out of croquettes is strangely inspiring. She has the sort of household where the roll of garbage bags is located at the base of the garbage can: efficient, functioning. Only lately, since her divorce, has it begun to dawn on me that she doesn't have everything covered all the time. How could she?

"Me too! I chirp. "We're all out of dog food too!"

"Yeah," Heidi continues. "I was about to toss together some rice, some bouillon, and some dog biscuits and get by another day…" 

There is something so heartening in finding out that your sister who gets-things-done  (she's an Aries) has considered the same lazy solution as you have: wingin' it with the dog food.

"That's exactly what I was about to do!" I laugh, "only I was going to use pasta and some dried up ham that the kids were supposed to eat. I'll have to try the soup/rice/dog biscuit idea sometime!"

"It works when there's no other solution but it's not good for the dogs' digestive tracts," Heidi warns me, letting me in on why she's waiting in the store parking lot before opening hours.

I was kinda hoping she would have gone ahead with the throw-it-together dog mix, like me. But she's doing the best she can, and I could do as much. I grab my car keys and head out into the night. While my sister's market is about to open, mine is about to close. I hate that we live an ocean apart, but it comforts me to know that Heidi is always there for me and that sometimes, coincidentally, we are doing the very same thing—like running out of croquettes.

Such synchronicity is the next best thing to being together, and if I close my eyes I can almost hear my sister in the supermarket aisle, ever looking out for me. "Get that one," she says, "the dogs will love it and it's on sale!"              

Heidi and Payne

 

My sister, Heidi, with my nephew, Payne. Heidi is an associate broker at Coldwell Banker.

I rarely write about my older sister (the one everyone guesses to be younger than I), though you'll find a tender scene here or there in the story archives:

"…my sister Heidi and I, pint-sized Thelma and Louises at the age of 13- and 9-years-old, used to careen across the dusty desert floor, tumbleweeds spinning in our wake. With Heidi at the wheel, we killed time… this after a breakfast of burritos and beer…." (an excerpt from the story Camionnette. Read it here)

I also refer to Heidi in this poem, "We Three":

…I had a sister who was prettier than I.
Jackie looks like her...

Another picture of my sister, here.

Sheepdogs
Heidi's sheepdogs, Winston and Truly. Have a minute for another story, about an endearing figure in French pop culture & beyond? You will learn a word that you will want to sing time and again, "Yalla!" Read my story about Soeur Emmanuelle, click here.

 

Sunflowers for my sister (c) Kristin Espinasse
It may be cold and snowing (two days ago…) here in the South of France—and the sunflower seeds may still be dormant, planted last week one-inch below the surface of the earth—but it is always the season to give your sister tournesols. Picture taken a few years back, near Joncquières (Vaucluse).


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66 thoughts on “La soeur – sister in French

  1. I neglected to mention my own three little sisters .. I am the oldest sibling, along with them and my little brother. They (and my brother of course) are a gift from God. I am, like your Sister Kristin, the Aries in our family. Aloha, Bill

  2. I neglected to mention my own three little sisters .. I am the oldest sibling, along with them and my little brother. They (and my brother of course) are a gift from God. I am, like your Sister Kristin, the Aries in our family. Aloha, Bill

  3. Speaking of dog food.
    I am one of those pet owners who are interested in a natural lifestyle for their pets, and while practicing it myself, I could only guide you to these books to get ever rewarding results for your pet too:
    The Whole Pet Diet: Eight Weeks to Great Health for Dogs and Cats [Paperback]
    http://www.amazon.com/The-Whole-Pet-Diet-Health/dp/1587612712/ref=sr_1_cc_1?s=aps&ie=UTF8&qid=1362118012&sr=1-1-catcorr&keywords=the+whole+pet+diet
    Dr. Pitcairn’s New Complete Guide to Natural Health for Dogs and Cats [Paperback]
    http://www.amazon.com/Pitcairns-Complete-Guide-Natural-Health/dp/157954973X/ref=sr_1_cc_2?s=aps&ie=UTF8&qid=1362118012&sr=1-2-catcorr&keywords=the+whole+pet+diet
    Benefits are obvious — your dog who is fed natural diet (yes, it means you cook for your dog too) feels energized, looks and acts happy and shiny! And all that at 3-5 min a day — that long it takes to toss some meat and veggies into some other cooking pan while you cook for yourself. Oh, and did I mention — NO DOCTORS VISITS (other than once a year reg check-up), and no money spent for any medications!
    New levels of quality life for your furry companions! And for you too!

  4. Speaking of dog food.
    I am one of those pet owners who are interested in a natural lifestyle for their pets, and while practicing it myself, I could only guide you to these books to get ever rewarding results for your pet too:
    The Whole Pet Diet: Eight Weeks to Great Health for Dogs and Cats [Paperback]
    http://www.amazon.com/The-Whole-Pet-Diet-Health/dp/1587612712/ref=sr_1_cc_1?s=aps&ie=UTF8&qid=1362118012&sr=1-1-catcorr&keywords=the+whole+pet+diet
    Dr. Pitcairn’s New Complete Guide to Natural Health for Dogs and Cats [Paperback]
    http://www.amazon.com/Pitcairns-Complete-Guide-Natural-Health/dp/157954973X/ref=sr_1_cc_2?s=aps&ie=UTF8&qid=1362118012&sr=1-2-catcorr&keywords=the+whole+pet+diet
    Benefits are obvious — your dog who is fed natural diet (yes, it means you cook for your dog too) feels energized, looks and acts happy and shiny! And all that at 3-5 min a day — that long it takes to toss some meat and veggies into some other cooking pan while you cook for yourself. Oh, and did I mention — NO DOCTORS VISITS (other than once a year reg check-up), and no money spent for any medications!
    New levels of quality life for your furry companions! And for you too!

  5. RE: Soeur, To your list of Soeur words let me quote from > where Alizee sings in her bubble bath: >>) so Grand or Grande Soeur. informally my Big Sister?

  6. RE: Soeur, To your list of Soeur words let me quote from > where Alizee sings in her bubble bath: >>) so Grand or Grande Soeur. informally my Big Sister?

  7. Sorry she sang “J’en ai marre de ma grand’Soeur qui gemit tout et qui pleure…”(accent aigu in gemit)

  8. Sorry she sang “J’en ai marre de ma grand’Soeur qui gemit tout et qui pleure…”(accent aigu in gemit)

  9. I am so grateful to have a wonderful sister (who doesn’t live close enough to me) and I am equally grateful that my daughters have a sister. Their brother is wonderful and very close to both of them, but sisters are so special.

  10. I am so grateful to have a wonderful sister (who doesn’t live close enough to me) and I am equally grateful that my daughters have a sister. Their brother is wonderful and very close to both of them, but sisters are so special.

  11. A great post!Love your story – Heidi and your friendship as sisters.I am the middle of five kids, with boys the eldest and youngest and 3 girls in the middle. I was a tomboy and my sisters were girly girls so, even though we were much less than two years apart, we were very different.I enjoy my relationships with my 4 siblings.

  12. A great post!Love your story – Heidi and your friendship as sisters.I am the middle of five kids, with boys the eldest and youngest and 3 girls in the middle. I was a tomboy and my sisters were girly girls so, even though we were much less than two years apart, we were very different.I enjoy my relationships with my 4 siblings.

  13. I,grew up in an all male home and felt a certain amount of privilege in being the only girl. Sometimes, I felt excluded when my father took my brothers fishing and hunting. On top of that, my neighborhood was all male. So, I had to learn to cope in an all-male environment. Doing so made me confident and willing to take risks. On the down side I didn’t understand little girls in school. They always seemed so overly dramatic and unwilling to let things go. Boys would fight but then it was over. With girls, battles lingered below the surface. Even when I matured and entered the workplace, I handled men much better than women. Okay, rambling. But your prompts definitely sparked some thoughts and feelings. Thanks!

  14. I,grew up in an all male home and felt a certain amount of privilege in being the only girl. Sometimes, I felt excluded when my father took my brothers fishing and hunting. On top of that, my neighborhood was all male. So, I had to learn to cope in an all-male environment. Doing so made me confident and willing to take risks. On the down side I didn’t understand little girls in school. They always seemed so overly dramatic and unwilling to let things go. Boys would fight but then it was over. With girls, battles lingered below the surface. Even when I matured and entered the workplace, I handled men much better than women. Okay, rambling. But your prompts definitely sparked some thoughts and feelings. Thanks!

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