Arizona meet-up & “Shoulda Coulda Woulda” in French

Kristin

"Moto Mama." I should have posted this photo a long time ago. More shouldas in the following ramble, below, and an update on the next French Word-A-Day meetup in Phoenix. Read on!
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PHOENIX MEET-UP: See info at the end of this post! Scroll down for directions to our next meet-up! 

A Day in a Mexican Life.. by Kristin Espinasse

J'aurais Pourrais Roarais

I should not write these posts far from my desk, far from my dictionnaire.

I should not make up a funny French equivalent for the Anglophone expression Shoulda Woulda Coulda … nevertheless:

J'aurais Pourrais ROARrais!

I should not tack ROAR onto the end of an almost correct French equivalent, but it is so much more fun to say it that way, so much more exhilarating– what with the ROAR in it: j'aurais pourrais roarais!

Back to those shoulds woulds coulds, to those AURS POURRS et ROARS… which do not, after all, exist in the mind of a French purist. (I should try to be a French purist… I should I should…)

I should tell you about the people I have met here, while visiting Mom at her home in Mexique

I should tell you about all the chick magnets (how does one say "chick magnet" in French? Chick magnets: those charismatic characters that cruise this Mexican marina with parrots or rabbits or puppies in their arms and on their shoulders. How we chicks can't resist chickadees and animals of all varieties. 

I should tell you about ma soeur cadette and the surprise visit she paid me. How she did agenda acrobatics with the airline where she works, in time to make it south of the border to bavarder or chat with me. (Thank you, Kelley.) I should show you a photo of her (I should tell you there's one here, at the end of this post – click here). 

I should tell you about the sweethearts, Colette and Abdalla, that Mom and I met that first day on the Malecon (sp?) and about the instant connection… but you can see it for yourself in this photo: 

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and here, in this one:

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I should share with your their secret to a happy union (because, of course, I was itching to ask them): respect and space! and knowing that a relationship is like the waves… I should go on about this couple who might have been Love incarnate.

I should tell you about Morlis (pictured below), who chased Mom down in time to ask her about her fish purse and how Morlis is our kinda man, one who can appreciate a purse! and I should tell you how Morlis helped Mom up, onto the bus, before the door closed shut and lurched forward, rumbling, jumbling, and bumbling all the way back to the marina and I sat there with my stomach beside me.

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I should not forget to mention the man who chased us off the bus, with Mom's purse in hand : "Listen! Listen!" said he, guessing what the English word for "Hey, you forgot this!" might be, and waving the purse, which he returned to us lest we leave it behind.

I should tell you about the Croatian couple whom we met at the bus stop in front of the marina and how they offer bright smiles each time we bump into them – how I wish I knew their names, but didn't want to be intrusive. How touched I am each time they remember us with a sparkle in their eyes. 

I should tell you about the fashion designer, Oded, from Tel Aviv, who reignited Mom's longtime dream: to visit–or, rather, live, in Israel. "You must go! It is only a 4-hour flight from Paris… You will love it there."

I should remember to be here… to be here now… 

I should tell you about how many times I have started and stopped and flopped this post – as I try to type out of my comfort zone (here in a cantankerous cafe where a new acquaintance is just a table away. I chat with the ladies from Toronto and the family new arrivals from New Jersey).

I should stop shoulding and start coulding: I could rest and relax and take a break…. for more than my own — for everyone's sake 🙂

And I should finally remember what I came here for today: to remind all Arizona-based readers of our next meeting place: so please, listen up: the next AZ meetup entitled "The Horizontal Hike" (we're taking any and all pressure off the lazy lizards, such as myself…) will be on Feb 11th (Friday) at 8:30 a.m. I hope you will make it out to see us. Here are the particulars – any questions should be posted in the comments box so that one of us might answer. Again, here's the info:

Phoenix, Arizona Meetup: "The Horizontal Hike"*

8:30 a.m. at Starbucks — 7th St and Thunderbird.
The address is 13240 N. 7th St.

*wear your tennies or sneakers or hiking boots!

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Click to enlarge photo … Finally, I shoulda told you about these guys. Oui, j'aurais pourrais roarais!
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29 thoughts on “Arizona meet-up & “Shoulda Coulda Woulda” in French

  1. Hi Kristin,
    It looks like you are having a great time in Mexico with Jules and meeting some great people! I love Jules fish purse. Have fun hiking in Phoenix. Wish I could be there!

  2. Close, but oh so far! I will be in Tucson on Friday morning. I need to be on campus at UofA at noon so no way I could do a horizontal hike in Phoenix and get back to Tucson in time. It would have been such fun! I’m sure you will have great fun without me. Maybe next time! Sounds like you have been having great fun meeting new people. Continue on!

  3. Everyone has such a big broad smile on their face……..fantastic trip! for one & all……….Enjoy enjoy.

  4. Kristin: This is one of your best posts ever! Thanks for trusting readers to share the bits and pieces, and thanks for not worrying that we expect you to be “perfect” and precise at every turn. We tune in because we enjoy hearing about your real life adventures, not because we are English or French profs (I am, but don’t hold it against me!). Keep going!!
    Carol McFarland
    Arcata, CA
    P.S. I may have missed it, but is this an annual visit or some special event?

  5. Salut Kristin! I love this blog today and all the pictures! What a wonderful time you must be having. Wish I could meet up with you in Arizona. I know you will have many more tales to tell!
    Add an “s” on to your french verbs to make them conditional. I tell my students this is tricky because they sound the same in French “j’aurai, j’aurais, je pourrai, je pourrais”.
    Can’t wait to see more pictures. I would love to go to Puerto Vallarta some day. Jule’s dog Breezy is precious!
    Amitiés,
    Julie
    San Diego, ca

  6. Love love love everything about this posting, Kristin!!! I so wish I could be in Phoenix. With a little more notice I probably coulda (keeping in the spirit of the posting) made arrangements. Maybe next time!

  7. Rather like the stream of consciousness style of writing. I think that it is very effective in reaching your readers, at least me. I almost wish that I was back in Phoenix (I just left the Boulders up in Carefree a couple of weeks ago) to share a good hike and cup of jave with you. Maybe next year if I know your dates ahead of time.

  8. Hello Kristin,
    Wish you could come to Utah and meet with your blog readers, there’s quite a few here that would love our books signed and spend some time with you. Looks like you’re having a great time in Mexico. I love your mom, she seems adorable. Kisses to Breeze.

  9. What fun … for you and for us. Thank you, Kristin. I love all of the photos.

  10. What a cute picture and have to say too I like the braking system on the three-wheeler with thonged tootsies!

  11. Salut Kristin,
    For those wishing to attend the meet-up, but may not want to hike, there’s an excellent ramada where they could gather and share stories. The Phoenix weather today is clear and sunny with a high of 72 degrees F. expected. Some sun protection might be appropriate for those not accustomed to the sun. I’m looking to see you, your sister and lots of FWAD followers.
    À bientôt

  12. Yes, enjoy the moment – they don’t last forever. Thanks for the delightful post and pictures.
    Kathleen

  13. …….how I hope you can keep your joie de vivre, your effervescence! It is so infectious and bubbly! Like a sip of real champagne!!!

  14. Oh, I so wish I could go to Phoenix and meet you. From the perspective of a global society, my home in North Las Vegas is just a hop-skip-and-jump (perhaps you could invent the French equivalent?) from there. Unfortunately, as a freelance writer, I have a 2-11-11 deadline, and with four dogs to care for, I just can’t make the trip, not without a lot of planning. Perhaps next time? Will there be a next time? I certainly hope so.

  15. I loved the whimsy of this post and all the colorful pictures and people. Wish I could be at the meetup — especially since we’re expecting more snow here in St. Louis — but I won’t be in Phoenix until April. Wish you could plan a Midwest one (don’t you have a cousin or someone to visit here?)

  16. Planning to be at Starbucks on Friday morning!! Very much looking forward to it. It’s gonna be great! 🙂

  17. Thank you for giving your mother my message, Kristin. I’ve know your mom for many years, like before your FWD site. She used to come into the “Pink Place”, She is indeed precious, and I do wish I could have been in my home across the marina, to meet you, and, knowing your mom, get in a wee bit of mischief. I’m happy you had the time to spend some time with her. I will be good for her.

  18. Hi
    Love Jules – what fun she must be!
    Something about you (or your writing) has changed since you have been in Mexico/Arizona.
    I think it is so free and so full of fun. Love it.
    I hope you continue to enjoy yourself.
    Anne

  19. Hi Kristin, love these posts and so does my Ruby, my 9 year old Golden who eagerly waits for picks of her francais amis B&S. I’m thinking from my french class that the french for “chick magnet” is chaud lapin (not me!). You are such a positive person exuding buckets of positive energy …. keep it up. One of your FWAD downunder (from “droughts to flooding rains”) followers.

  20. Hi Kristin,
    your latest postings have been so full of the joy you must be experiencing in such a happy place particularly to be able to share time with your Mother.
    I have been sharing time with my family at
    my grandsons wedding, which was held on the edge of the bay on the most perfect day
    in the Bay of Islands NZ.
    It is a spiritual environment for the indigenous Maoris and we all felt the peace of our surroundings during the service.
    Thank you for sharing with us your photos and experiences in Mexico.
    June Furey, Auckland NZ 8 Feb 2011

  21. Greetings Kristi! I have been buried elsewhere and just got caught up on your trip to the US and now Mexico. So lovely to see you and your mother,and the incredible colors of the country as displayed on a living model. Enjoy the warmth of sun and motherhood. Bises, Eugenia

  22. Hi Kristin,
    A bouncy litany of I should, I should, I should…. and such lively photos to pass on to your readers avid to read all the ‘celebrity’ gossips! Light entertainment, great fun, big smiles and I can even ‘hear’ giggles and laughters in the background. You can now tick each item off your long ‘I should’ list. All said – all done! Bravo!
    BTW, talking about photos, we haven’t had the pleasure of getting one of John yet – or one of Jules & John – Who is shy here?
    Now, for you Kristin, and for the FWAD readers who are interested in the French language, here is a clue:
    –> when “should” means “ought to”, translate by the Conditional of the verb “devoir” (JE DEVRAIS… nous devrions… etc)
    I’ll send a separate post about these “RAIS …”
    short hours of sleep, long chats, full fun days… you must feel happily exhausted, but most probably have no time to think about it!
    Que la fête mexicaine se passe au mieux.
    Dear Jules, Kristin’s visit must be the most valuable 65th birthday present for you. Has Kristin seen all your favourite spots and those horses you mentioned once?
    Kristin, I’ve just realised you’ll be back to celebrate “la Saint Valentin”! Perfect timing!

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