A shopfront in Le Panier–a quartier in Marseilles. Scroll down for a list of ways to sign off email correspondence.
TODAY'S WORD: QUITTER
1. to leave, to quit
2. to give up, vacate, forsake, abandon
3. to exit
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Il faut se quitter souvent pour s'aimer toujours.
We must leave each other often in order to love each other forever.
A DAY IN A FRENCH LIFE by Kristi Espinasse
I am fascinated with farewells (of the e-mail kind) when I'm not downright fussing over how to end my own courriels. Signing off after even the briefest note is cause for over-reflection, and I sometimes stare for minutes at the blank screen before relying on the same old (boring?) standby:
Amicalement,
Kristi
While gros bisous still sounds a little too intimate, I ask myself if tchao–something I love the sound and French spelling of–isn't a bit hip or sort of pretentious sounding (tchao darling!)? Oh well, I never know, but I am game to try all of the farewells noted below. I hope you will too!
WAYS TO SIGN OFF OR SAY GOODBYE IN FRENCH
à bientôt = (see) you soon
à très bientôt = (see) you real soon
adieu = goodbye (forever)
affectueusement = affectionately (love)
à la prochaine = until next time
à tout à l'heure = toodeloo
amicalement = (literally: "in a friendly way") yours, best wishes, regards
amitiés = (amitié = friendship) yours, best wishes, regards
amitiés sincères = sincere regards
à plus (or "à+" or "@+") = later
au plaisir = with the pleasure of seeing you again
au revoir = goodbye
avec toute mon amitié = with all my friendship
bien à toi = yours
bien à vous = yours
bien affectueusement = yours affectionately
bien amicalement = best wishes
bien amicalement à vous = best wishes to you
bien cordialement = warmly
bien des choses à tous = best to all
bien/très respectueusement = with much respect
bisettes = kisses
des bisettes = kisses
bisous = kisses
bonne continuation = keep up the good work
bonne journée = have a nice day
cordialement = cordially
d'un (d'une) ami(e) = from a friend
encore merci = thanks again
grosse bise = big kiss
gros bisous = big kisses
je serai toujours là pour vous = I'll always be there for you
je t'embrasse (je vous embrasse) = big kiss, with love
meilleures salutations = best salutations
meilleurs sentiments = best wishes
merci = thanks
mes amitiés = my best wishes, my best regards
mes salutations respectueuses = yours faithfully
mille baisers = a thousand kisses
plein de baisers = lots of kisses
salut = bye
salutations = salutations
salutations distinguées = distinguished salutations
tchao (also à tchao!) = ciao, bye
tendresse = fondly
tiens bon (tenez bon) = take care, hang in there
ton ami(e) = your friend
toute mon amitié = very best wishes
très cordiales salutations = warm salutations
votre ami(e) = your friend
…and last, but not least:
Kristi
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Il faut se quitter souvent pour s'aimer toujours.
You need to leave each other often to love each other forever.
Autumn in Lyon. All photos (c) Kristin Espinasse unless otherwise noted.
~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~Expressions~~~~~~~~~~~~~~
ne quittez pas = hold the line, hold on (when telephoning)
quitter le deuil = to come out of mourning
quitter la partie = to give up, to throw in the towel
quitter les lieux = to vacate the premises
ne pas quitter d'une semelle = to not let somebody out of your site
365 Days of French Expressions: Learn one new French Expression per Day
Verb conjugation: je quitte, tu quittes, il/elle quitte, nous quittons, vous quittez, ils/elles quittent; past participle: quitté
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I do look like Elisabeth the first!
The cat says, “Doesn’t this blue just bring out the color in my eyes?”
Fun post, thanks for all the ways to say adieu!
Blessings,
Jen
Mmmm, my favorite (but only for casual emails) is “catchyal8rg8r”. 🙂
I end mine in a boring way, either A+ or Amicalement. Not too original but it works and saves the time to come up with something new everytime 🙂
Caption: Forget the blue shutters – feed me
I regularly get emails ending in Bx — as in bisous — from the other parents at our school.
Caption: I hope someone will open the door soon!
I love all the ways you posted to greet and say good-bye. Thank you!
My notion is if I can’t think of anything to say in their language or mine. Then I respond with a hug or a smile because both break down language barriers 🙂
I have several closing lines including:
Make it a beach day!
My best of the beach to you!
and my favorite, which is how I autograph my books:
May all your adventures be a day at the beach!
Diana Taylor, author and Top Dog
Pug At The Beach
http://www.PugsNewsFromTheBeach.com
Forget the mouse, I want foie gras!
Merci beaucoup for the many ways to say au revior. I plan to use them. mes amitiés
It all depends on who are talking to.
When it is a buddy : @+
When it is professional : Meilleurs sentiments
When it is family : Gros bisous
When it is a close friend : Amicalement
When it is a first contact : Cordialement
When it is my wife : Bisous partout !
“En France, je suis le ‘Roi’ des animaux, mais aux États-Unis je serais simplement ‘Roy’.” Je resterai ici!
Being fron the U.S., it depends whom I’m writing to and how well I
know them. Many languages have many different good-byes. We have no standard, just, from, or love if
we know the person better.
Susan
SPEECH BUBBLE: ( * )
Great photos!!! Love the contrast of the cat and the blue shutters. Merci. and thanks for the selection of closings. What a super resource and all in one spot.
I also always hesitate. With friends I alternate “Gros Bises”, “A+” and “Bisous”.
A friend of mine sometimes writes “La bise” like the kisses “near” the cheek that the French give to say goodbye
Damn! I’m gettin’ too old for this m*****!
Friends: Kristin XOXO
Friends at work: Many thanks!
Ma chef: Bonne journee!
Professionals: Thanks and regards,
People I am annoyed with or don’t know: Best regards,
Ce que je pense des expressions de la liste:
1) I never end with “Ton amie” / “Votre amie”, but -> “Amicalement” and “Bien amicalement” (without ->”à vous”). To a group of people -> “Amitié(s) à vous tous”.
No problem with “Amitié”, “Toute mon amitié”, “Avec toute mon amitié”, or “Amitiés”. However, in the expression “Amitiés sincères”, sincerity is already contained in the meaning of “Amitiés”, so the adj “sincères” is superfluous.
2) “Au plaisir” – To my friends & family, I would normally say, according to the context → “Au plaisir de te lire”, “Au plaisir de te voir”, “Au plaisir de te revoir”. To the one who rarely sends letters or e-mails: “Au grand plaisir d’avoir un peu de tes nouvelles”! / “Au grand plaisir d’avoir un peu de nouvelles de ta part!”
3) I dislike the expression → “A plus” (and even less written “à +” / @ +). I know it became popular with e-mail writing, but sorry, to me, it doesn’t mean anything.
4) “Bien des choses à tous” seems to show laziness and lack of imagination. I prefer: “Meilleurs souhaits à vous tous!”
5) “Je serai là pour vous” – > is a romantic and slightly old fashioned way to say: “Ne t’inquiète pas, tu peux toujours compter sur moi” / “Ne vous inquiétez pas, vous pouvez toujours compter sur moi”.
6) When confused with all the expressions around “salutations”, I would stick to “Salutations” / “Meilleures salutations”. I’d keep “Salutations respectueuses” for the Headmistress, the boss of an organisation I get in touch with for the first time, and “Salutations distinguées” for the higher authorities! “Très cordiales salutations” -?- just as polite to say: “Salutations”, or, “Cordialement”.
7) The Italian “Ciao” (Tchao!) sounds really nice, but I am not very keen to use it in writing … What about “Bye”?
—> All the others expressions are fine and very useful, as long as used appropriately, respecting people and context.
I must admit I do send “bisous”, and “bises”, of course – but reducing them to “Biz” or “Bx” as some people do? No…
By the way -> To members of family, or good old friends, one can end with:
Je t’embrasse / Je vous embrasse bien fort / Bises affectueuses / Bien affectueusement.
I would always end a letter to my very dear French grandmother (1883-1978) with: “Je t’embrasse très affectueusement”.
From the cat, ‘Was that the clock striking midday? Time to amble over to the cafe and see what I can charm out of the customers.’
Super list of goodbyes. Most of my emails are to friends, so in French Amicalement, and in English Cheers. Rather boring I know but better than pondering.
If the cat is like most cats, he is thinking, “You’re all just simple creatures.”
I usually sign off with Have a great day, so now I should just make it Bonne journee.
Bonne journee,
Jean Marc (l’autre)
I don’t always use a sign off on emails (probably just a little too casual on email protocols). When I do it is bisous to friends in France, love to Mom, something silly like toodles or cheerio pip pip to good friends. The business email sign of is a thank you. The cat is thinking “does this furry ruff make me look fat?”
In English, the absolute best way to close an email is “Best,” or “Cheers,”. In Spanish, I prefer “Un saludo,”. It’s hard to find the perfect balance of friendliness and seriousness, especially in French. I have always found that they either sound way too friendly or way too distanced. But I suppose that maybe that is la culture française!
Kristen–Zee chatte pense a sa-meme “Pour quoi touts les portes francaise sont bleus?”
(And I am so very glad they are!) eve from madison wi
I usually sign off with a bientot or a la prochaine or gros bisous to friends in France (or Francophiles!)All of my friends know that I am addicted to France and are not suprised by the occasional utterance in French! Bon Chance, Kristin and Jean Marc!
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” This is my best side. Please hurry up. I can’t keep all of this fur standing up for very long. ”
cat: “Let’s see what human I can control today”
Ending letters in email has been excruciating for me! Being very much a ‘people’ person, I try to choose so carefully. I has been a little spot of angst at the end of many easily written letters.
Loved ones: xoxo, love, love you, God bless you
Customers: Blessings, or Thanks
Vendors: Sincerely (old school:/)
The cat seems to be thinking –
“Don’t even think of disturbing me.”
Quelle jolie devanture!
I don’t understand the reason for the percentage in the name, … but it doesn’t matter. 10, Rue du Petit Puits – un puits = a well – so, a very picturesque address too!
Kristin, this is couleur “lie-de-vin”, (perhaps a bit dark) isn’t it?
Speech bubble:
“Je suis Raminagrobis, le Prince des chats!”
Raminagrobis is a character in La Fontaine’s Fables, (Le Chat, la Belette et le petit lapin) —>
… “un saint homme de chat, bien fourré, gros et gras,
arbitre expert sur tous les cas. »
The cat is saying:
“I wonder what they are going to feed me tonight!”
Well, for work, I end with ‘Make Good Memories’ since it ties into my tv show.
For my friends it varries all the time, usually just
xo~Jules
xo~jj
or of you are REALLY in my good favor…xoxoxoxoxxo!!!!
I LOVE EVERYONE SO IT’S ALWAYS ‘XOXO’
XOXO,
JULES
Of late my “guitter” displays a marked resemblance to the American economy :
… ploddingly, imperceptibly, inertly, laggardly, leadenly, listlessly, lethargically, ponderously, sluggishly, but lovingly yours,
C.
Thanks for the list. I printed it out the last time you published it and I keep it in my desk drawer to end my emails differently each time!
Tres cordiales salutations,
Jeanne
When I was a child, my French penfriend (can’t get used to “penpal”!) and I signed our letters — remember them? — “Je t’embrasse bien fort”; as an adult, I’ve used “Amitiés” and “Amicalement” and “Bisoux” depending on the recipient.
My current Italian amica di matita (lit. pencil friend) and I begin our e-mails “Mia cara [NAME]” and sign off “Un abbraccio” or “Abracci”(a hug/hugs) or “Non vedo l’ora d’avere notizie di te” (looking forward to hearing from you). Another friend signs hers “Cari saluti” (fond/affectionate greetings). I can’t imagine myself ending an e-mail with “ciao” but I do begin them that way sometimes. (For those of you who don’t know, “ciao” is both hello and goodbye.) I love the French spelling of ciao, by the way!
To some English and American friends I simply sign off with my name; to others I use “Love.” My cousin, her daughter, and I sign off to each other with kisses “Love, Passantexx.”
Kristin, in your case, your genuineness is your signature. I rarely read anything into signatures. With those I know well, I use ‘Bye for now,’ which implies future contact. I’m a dog-lover, but cats always jump up on me, and go to sleep. Obviously, she has just seen me. Ah-ha, there’s Doug. I’ll wait for this car to pass…
Oops, that was “Bisous”!
Oh dear, I seem to be taking over your comments box, but I just noticed the cat photo and wanted to add that I once spent two weeks in Provence, staying in a rented house in Vacqueyras. I remember the fountain dedicated to Raimbaut de Vacqueyras.
hugs
(in San Francisco)
Kitty Cat.
Do I look fat in this outfit?
Suz
How I end my letters depends on the person to whom I’m writing. I have an American friend to whom I always write in French, and most often sign off with “amities.”
Le chat pense, “Le mot “miaou” est international!”
You may slowly approach and pet me if you wish.
Endings I use, according to person and text
Regards
Thanks
All the best
Cheers
Bye / Bye for now
Love / Love & best wishes / Lots of love
xx … xx (on each sign of my name)
Salutations
Cordialement / Bien cordialement
(Avec) tous mes remerciements
Merci / Mille mercis / Un grand merci pour tout
Amicalement / Bien amicalement / Amitiés à tous
Bisous / Bisous à partager / Bisous à tous
Je t’embrasse / Bises affectueuses / Bien affectueusement
Kristin,
What you wrote before your list –> ‘Because it’s never easy to say goodbye’ …, reminded me of the Italian song, ‘Con Te Partiro’, famous in the late nineties. Just been listening to it!
Too late at this time to end with: Bonne journée!
so:
Bonne soirée!
Bon week-end en famille,
Excellente fin de vacances, Kristin!
Amitiés de la part de nous tous.
Le chat, il pense,”I know if I pose here long enough, someone will take my picture.”
All those farewell endings made me remember the one most often used by my mother:
‘In haste…Mom’ It’s funny, but it implied that although there was much else to be done she was taking time to write a letter to me.
So to all of you readers and posters:
Bien des choses a tous, Jeane in AZ
When you said…”While “gros bisous” still sounds a little too intimate,” it made me giggle. It is true.. anglos we have reserved boundaries. Although, after a glass of french wine…I am all about the gros bisous.lol
I just say,
Smiles, Cyndi
Most of the time I have to use a French goodbye is related to work. I end all French emails “cordialement”. I used to use “salutations” but I noticed all the French people were using “cordialement” so I did the same so as not to appear “gauche”. I admit this properly ending French writings is also a daunting task. With the whole “je vous prie d’agréer, Monsieur XXX, l’assurance de ma considération distinguée” I get all flustered.
THOUGHT BUBBLE #2: ( * * ) . . . !
–Cat almost conjured up a thought but, as is usual with cats, it evaporated before he could grasp it (which is why we named one of our cats after a cabbage)!
If you don’t believe in guard cats, try opening this door!
Working on loving everyone, “Love and best wishes” is used unless there is a question of offending the recipient. When it is family or a special friend, “–always” is added. For my wife it is “I love you, Dear Nancy!” (or some other mushy statement).
you were expecting a pink door! in France???, thank you for another lesson, your terrific!!!!